• Anita Hollerer-Squire

Never let these 5 things control your life


Many people let themselves be controlled by those 5 things and are thereby preventing themselves from having an extraordinary life.

1. Never let other people's opinions control your life

From an early age we are made to "fit in" and conform. We are told what to do, how to do it and when to do it. We go along with it because we want to be liked and feel connected.

However, pleasing other people prevents us from doing what we really want. Ask yourself if you are doing something you really want to do, or are you doing something in order to fit in and get approval from others?

You are unique - there is nobody else in the world just like you. Don't let yourself be limited by other people's opinions of you. Be yourself and do what you want to do without worrying about what people think. Those who care about you, will stand by you regardless. Don't lower your light just to blend in with the bleak majority. Stand out - BE YOU!

2. Never let limiting beliefs control your life

We all hold certain assumptions about ourselves in our mind - which mostly hail from our upbringing and conditioning.

How you see yourself, determines how far you will go in life. The only thing stopping you from achieving greatness, is your own mind. The thoughts you choose to think control your outcome.

There is nothing, you can not DO or ACHIEVE or BE - if you BELIEVE in yourself. Change the way you think, and your potential is limitless!

3. Never let money control your life

Don't let your self-worth be connected to how much money you have. Money does not mean you are a better person. Do not make decisions based purely on how much money you can make. There is nothing wrong with attracting money and wealth into your life - but don't make money your primary concern.

Do what you feel is right, do things you are passionate about, things that you believe in. Help others and give freely and you will find that money will come. Don't focus on what you don't have - focus on what you do have, and you will attract more of that into your life.

4. Never let fear of failure control your life

Fear of failure is the most common emotion holding us back from achieving what we truly want. Our desire to look good in the eyes of others and be perceived as someone who has it all worked out stops us from reaching our full potential.

The only way to overcome this fear, is to step outside our comfort zone and change the way we think about failure. Failure is a part of life - instead of fearing it, we should learn from it. Failure is not something we should be ashamed of. If you haven't failed at anything, you probably haven't stepped outside your comfort zone. Face the fear and do it anyway - that's how growth happens.

5. Never let your past control your life

Your past is not an indicator of your future. Whatever happened to you in the past should not define you. It's just the past. If you got hurt by others, if you didn't succeed in something, if things were tough - let it go.

You are not your past. Don't let things from your past hold you back. You can decide right now how you want your life to be and how you want to be as a person. Leave the past behind. Enjoy the present and start creating the future you want.

If you always do

What you have always done

You will always get

What you always got

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